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Ending a first interaction by connecting on Facebook or another social network instead of exchanging numbers.
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Since a few Years Facebook has become so popular, that nearly every person around the world has a profile there. Not only a profile, it's used everyday, for conversations and posting all the memories in life. So to stay in contact with a woman you just met, it's a nice alternative to the good old Number Close. Both have their pros and cons, which you can compare here: Facebook Close VS Phone Number Close or a detailed FBC-Method in Clubgame.
In short, the Facebook Close is much easier to get, cause it does not feel so personal for the woman. You can gain a lot more informations about her, her pictures, friends, likes and comments will help to get to know her quickly. It's not so personal like a Phone Number, but its easy to start a conversation. Be careful that you don't chat to long, keep it funny and interesting, than make up a date, when the conversation is going well. Always build enough rapport before you make a number or Facebook Close and if the situation allows it, try to go for the Kiss Close, Instant Date or Fuck Close.
Example
You: "I have to get back to my friends, but this was fun. Are you on Instagram? Type your name in here and I'll send you that playlist I mentioned."
(She enters her name, you send a follow request.)
Later: "Here's the playlist. By the way, there's a good ramen place near the station. Free Thursday?"
How to do it
- Build rapport first, then ask casually and give a reason, such as sending a photo, a song or a place you talked about.
- Let her type her own name into your phone. It is quick, and she controls what she shares.
- Message the same day or the next, keep it short and move to a plan within a few messages.
- Today the same works with Instagram, WhatsApp or another app. Use the one she already uses.
Common mistakes
Long chats without a date go nowhere, and a social profile is easy to ignore, so these contacts flake more easily. Do not scroll back through old photos and like them, and do not read a follow as permission to send sexual messages. If she offers this instead of a number, that can be an IOD, but not always. See also what to talk about with a girl.
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