Arash Dibazar uses alias name Achilles and has lived in six different countries including Iran, Syria, Turkey, Kuwait, England, and is now based in the United States. This shows he has mixed with so many different cultures where he was able to acquire the ability to read people’s expressions and body language as a means of understanding their communication. He employs this skill in his dating advice to men. Before he settled into the career of a dating coach, he was a distinguished martial arts, which led him to become a student of Broadway actor and director, the late Manu Tupou.

Achilles, with confidence in martial arts, skills in expert professional acting and deep background in Zen Buddhism, came across the book “The Game”, which shaped his path to meet with prominent people in the dating industry. He met pick-up gurus such as Ross Jeffries and Mystery, eventually becoming a personal student of James Matador. Achilles uses his experiences that he has had in many backgrounds to come up with a style in delivering dating advice that is both strong and charismatic, structured and flows naturally.

Arash says men want to get better results with women but after reading books in the dating industry and practicing regularly, they still are not satisfied at the pace in which their game improves. Thus, they end up being frustrated. You see a very hot girl and you want to get the skills to be able to get her now. You also want to have that game that should enable you to keep such a woman in a relationship. Arash says men want to achieve this in the shortest amount of time. It is based in this analogy that Arash bases his dating advice on. Arash says for men to be able to attract women consistently and keep them, they should create a lifestyle that will make the hottest women, those rated 9’s and 10’s, chase them wherever they go.

Arash teaches men about lifestyle change to be able to attract and date women. He says men must have their life correct in order to attract the most beautiful women.

One of the interesting things I picked up from Arash dating advice to men is his explanation of women and how men view them as complex. He says men must make an effort to understand women because that’s only when they will cease to be complex and become rather simple. Most men don’t understand what women want as you can give them what they want but still they are not contended. Arash pushes for deep understanding of women but not just about what society expects of them. He says the secret to understanding a woman is to understand their feel desire and aversion for.