4 Campus Openers

Openers that you can use to approach Girls on your College Campus or University.

1. Hey, I'm new here - could you show me where the library is?" Once there, tell her you're not really new, you just needed an excuse to meet her - and invite her for coffee.

2. Hey, I need your opinion - I'm going on a blind date with a girl and I'm nervous. Are there any tips you can give me so I don't look like an idiot?

3. Hey, I'm cramming for a test - can you quiz me on these questions for a few minutes?

4. Hi, I'm looking for models for a campus magazine… you look like you might have what Ineed. Do you have any modeling experience?

Campus Openers by Bobby Rio

When to use it

Use them between classes, in the library, in the cafeteria or at a campus event, with a woman who is not hurrying to a lecture. Lines 1 to 3 are friendly and fine. Skip line 4: claiming to look for models when you are not is a lie she may feel tricked by, and a modelling pretext from a stranger can feel unsafe.

Follow-up

After she answers, keep the invitation easy and honest: "I owe you a coffee for the help. Fifteen minutes, no strings." If she has class, ask whether she is around later, or just say it was nice to meet her. Ask about her subject and her plans, which are an easy topic on campus.

Why it works

Asking for help is a small request that many people like to fulfil, and campus gives you a shared setting, so you will run into each other again (propinquity effect). For another place-based set, see Bookstore Openers.