4 Bookstore Openers

Situational Opener · Use something happening around you right now.

Contents · 3 sections
  1. When to use it
  2. Follow-up
  3. Why it works

If you are in a bookstore or library and see a beautiful woman, you can use these openers to approach her perfectly:

1. Ask her “Have you ever read a Harry Potter book?” Whatever she answers playfully express concern, “I don’t know… if I read it I think it would convert me to with craft or wicca”

2. Read a book nonchalantly next to the girl. Shake your head and say, “I just can’t find what I’m looking for. How is that book of yours – is it any good?”

3. Excuse me, do you know any good books on relationships? My friend wants to spice up her sex life, what you would recommend?

4. Pull out a random book from the shelf and open it: “Wow… cool… this book is so awesome… this is bad… this the shit… Is what you’re reading as good as this?

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When to use it

Go in quiet daytime hours, in a bookstore, a library café or at a book fair. Choose a woman who is browsing the shelves, not someone concentrating at a study desk. Keep your voice low and give her space. Skip it if she wears headphones or is clearly working to a deadline.

Follow-up

Ask about her book: "What made you pick it? Is it worth reading?" Then mention one of yours. After a few minutes you can suggest a coffee: "I need a coffee after all this reading. Want one?" If she wants to carry on browsing, take it well and say it was nice to meet her. More places like this are in Campus Openers.

Why it works

The shelves give you a natural reason to talk, and books are an easy topic for people who love them. The calm setting also takes away pressure, because nobody there is trying to impress anybody. If approach anxiety hits, remember a book question is among the lowest-risk openers there is.

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