The Test
Direct Opener · Tell her straight away that you find her attractive.
Me: Congratulations
Her: What, why when?
Me: You pass my first test - you look interesting which made me come here and start to talk to you. Now I want to know if you are fun.
Keep exploring
- Very Direct "You are so Damn sexy, (Pause) and I am going to get to know you (Pause) so tell me something about yourself (smile)"
- Oral Sex "Hey girls, let me ask you something… (pause) Oral sex on the first date: yes or no?" A deliberately shocking question by Badboy.
- Compliment Opener Compliment her on something she’s wearing or her hair or just style in general.
- 6 Direct Openers Hey, What’s up? Where are you going? My name is x-name… How are you? You’re cute, are you friendly/interesting?
- Contagious Smile "Excuse me, do you think smiles are contagious?" and give her a big smile until she smiles back. "See I knew it they are! What's your name?"
- Love vs In Love Hey, I need your opinion on something real quick. My best friends girl broke up with him, when he asked for the reason, she told him that…
- Do I look gay? Preferably used with a wing and with a game-show host/party host attitude. "I need your honest opinion on something... do I look gay?"
- Thug Lovin "Hey guys, I'm doing a poll. Which do the ladies prefer… THUG LOVIN'? Or… GANGSTA LOVIN'?"
- Undies In a lingerie store, pick up a pair of boyshorts and a thong, then approach. "Hey, I need a female perspective here.
- Tv Show This opener is outdated, but adaptable to current TV shows. You: Hey guys. (Pause here for a quick sec?
- The Both Answer Reply (Bumble) Beach during the day, mountains at night, and I'll argue with anyone who says you have to choose. What would you pick?
- The Best Meal Reply (Bumble) A very average sandwich that I've decided was exceptional because I was starving. Your answer has to beat that, no pressure.
- The Dream Trip Reply (Bumble) Right now: Lisbon, mostly for the pastries, partly for the trams. Your turn, and give me a reason that isn't 'the pictures look nice'.
- The Fictional Place Reply (Bumble) Rivendell, with the Hogwarts kitchens as a close second. What's your pick, and what's the catch?
- The Karaoke Reply (Bumble) Bohemian Rhapsody, because I like to ruin it for everyone. What's yours, and do you commit to the choreography?
- Name Mnemonics HB: What’s your name? Style: I’m Style. HB: I’m Janet. This is Donna. And that’s Tony. Style: Okay…Janet.Donna.Tony.
- Good-Looking People This Opener works well if you’re not a “conventionally” good looking person and your target is quite good looking.
- Fashion Tip Just go up and tell them how they would look EVEN BETTER to you.
- Embarrassing Dare Hey, y'all are women. You'll probably have some great answers to this question I have.
- Never be a couple “Aww - you are soo cute.. but you make me SO SAD! Girl: WHY? Cos we could NEVER EVER be a couple! Girl: WHY ?? Because we are too similar..
- Karma Hey guys, I need a female opinion. Do you believe in karma? If you don't know, Karma is a belief that whatever you do comes back to you: If…
- Polar Bear Me: “great big polar bear” Her: “What?” Me: “That's a great ice breaker don't you think?”
- Greeting Walking in the store I waited for her to say it…… Her: “Hello” Seraf: Wow…..seriously? That was ALMOST the best greeting I’ve had all day!
- Confident Enough Are you confident enough to accept a sincere compliment? Good, so am I, you go first. Opener by Richard la Ruina
- Thoughtful Eyes You have thoughtful eyes. I think you have a lot going on inside here.