PUAmoreWho lies more
Direct Opener · Tell her straight away that you find her attractive.
Contents · 3 sections
Who lies more, men or women?' Tease her on what she says!
When to use it
Use it in a relaxed café, bar or party where the mood is already friendly and the woman or group likes banter. This one can backfire: a topic that sets men against women turns sour quickly, and it feels unkind if she answers seriously or has been lied to recently. It is meant for playful adults who are enjoying the conversation. If the tone drops, change the subject.
Follow-up
Tease her answer, not her. If she says men, try "That's the most honest answer I've heard today." If she says women, try "Interesting, that sounded like a confession." Then ask for the biggest lie she has ever heard, or play the 5 Lies Game.
Why it works
A debate with no right answer is easy to join and invites banter. Light teasing shows that you can joke without being offended. It only works while the teasing stays kind.
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