PUAmoreConversation Starter
Situational Opener · Use something happening around you right now.
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Depending on how high-status she sees herself and the rest of the environment, you may need a little bait to keep her attention.
A girl once walked up to me in a club, looking for the exit (it's a labyrinth of a place). Her eyes started to wander while I was talking, so I added a tease:
Her: "Hey, where's the front door in here? I'm lost…"
Read next13 Mixed Set OpenersMe: "It's right up there, past the bar… hey, just because you're beautiful doesn't mean you can get away with such an obvious pickup line."
Her: "But I wasn't trying to…"
Me: "Sure you weren't. Don't worry, I'll teach you a better one, and then we'll find a guy you can practice on before you come back to me."
- Conversation Starter Opener by Christian Hudson
When to use it
When a woman asks you something in passing, for directions or the time. Always answer her question properly first. If she really just wants to leave, let her go: the tease only works if she's smiling and has a moment.
Follow-up
Give her a deliberately cheesy "better line" as a joke, then switch to a real question, for example what brought her here tonight.
Why it works
It turns the roles around: you playfully accuse her of hitting on you. That creates a little game and gives her an easy reason to stay and banter instead of walking off.
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