Primp

Situational Opener · Use something happening around you right now.

Contents · 3 sections
  1. When to use it
  2. Follow-up
  3. Why it works

First, here is the frame you’re using for this opener: “You’re CUTE… but I’m going to make you a ROCKSTAR!”

This is, in fact, the exact wording I used to open my wing’s HB9 on Saturday night. I opened her and I let him take over and #close her. (He should have gotten more. Oh well, I’ll call her later. Maybe) You don’t even need to say anything to open, so this works in the loudest clubs. You walk up, of course making sure to keep your Body-Language under control. You check her out then make a face like you aren’t happy with what you see. Then you hold your hands out like you’re judging her style. You move in slowly, pick some article of clothing (hat, shirt, etc. Best if it’s upper body or head) and PRIMP it. Take her hat and TWIST it ever so slightly. Now, back away, lean back, look her over, and give hera thumbs up.

“NOW you’re a SUPERSTAR!”

Continue with push/pull if you wish… “But wait…” and twist the hat back the other way. If she touches her hat, bust her for messing it up. Tell her she’s allowed to be seen with you now, and promenade her around the club.

- Primp Opener by Harmless

When to use it

It belongs in loud clubs and busy bars in the evening, with a woman who is in a good mood and wears a hat, scarf or collar, ideally with a wing nearby. Do not touch a stranger's clothes without asking. Make eye contact, hold up your hands as if to say "may I?" and wait for a smile or a nod. If she steps back or frowns, drop it. Skip it with women who look tired or uninterested.

Follow-up

Once she laughs, say "Now you're allowed to be seen with me. I'm Sam." Ask her name and what she is celebrating. If she twists the hat back, enjoy it, but do not keep pulling it back and forth. Then move to normal conversation, so you are not stuck in the joke.

Why it works

It needs almost no words, so it works in noise. The playful "stylist" role is a joke, not an insult, and the touch is tiny and happens only after she has agreed to it.

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