Fashion Openers

Situational Opener · Use something happening around you right now.

Contents · 3 sections
  1. When to use it
  2. Follow-up
  3. Why it works

“I love your style. You’ve got a great look - you must be very creative.”

“I have to say - the way you’ve put your outfit together is so creative. I love your senseof style.”

“Your style really stands out amongst everyone here, and I had to get to know theperson behind such a great outfit.”

- Fashion Openers by Christian Hudson

When to use it

Use them at events, bars, cafés or on the street when a woman's outfit really stands out. Save them for outfits that truly impress you, because a made-up compliment sounds hollow. Say it once, in a warm tone and without drama. Skip it if she is in a hurry or on her phone.

Follow-up

Add a question: "Do you make your own outfits, or do you just have an eye?" or "Where do you find your clothes?" After she answers, give your name and share something about you. If she thanks you and keeps walking, wish her a good day. A shorter version of this idea is the Compliment Opener.

Why it works

Style is a choice, so praising it feels like noticing the person, not rating her body. People who dress with care usually like to hear that someone noticed.

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