Introduction

Risky Opener · Bold, cheeky lines — high reward, high risk.

Contents · 3 sections
  1. When to use it
  2. Follow-up
  3. Why it works

PUA: (grab unsuspecting SHB by the arm and point at a random dude) “OMG, that guy is PERFECT for you - let me introduce you!!” (start moving towards the guy)

Girl: What?! No.. NONONO.. haha.. Help!

PUA: (to guy) This girl is so shy, but she really wanted to meet you!

Girl: (Giggeling hysterically) Nonono… its not true!(Fleeing)

PUA: Awww come on.. don’t be shy.. Both girls were very hot and totally stuck up before I did this. Both of them came back and talked to me several times during the evening, to tell me how crazy I was…

- Introduction Opener by ijjjji

When to use it

Use it at a party, club or lively bar where people are mixing and she already smiles at your jokes. The joke needs a good mood in the room. It can embarrass her, so do not use it on someone who is nervous or alone, and never grab her arm. Point or gesture and keep your hands to yourself; it works just as well.

Follow-up

When she laughs and protests, take the pressure off: "Fine, I'll introduce myself instead. I'm Alex." Then ask her name and switch the topic. If the stranger joins in, introduce everybody and keep chatting as a group. If she looks truly uncomfortable, stop at once and say "Just kidding, no pressure."

Why it works

The role reversal is funny: you act as her matchmaker and she gets to refuse with a laugh. It also shows that you are at ease with strangers, which adds social proof.

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