Twin brothers opener

You're at a party or a club and you meet twin brothers; they are absolutely identical, physically. One of them has the best hands of any guy you've ever met. The other is an incredible dancer. Which one do you pick?

Same scenario. Again, the two guys are identical. One makes you laugh more than anyone you’ve ever met. The other is the most incredible kisser you could ever in a lifetime encounter. Which one do you pick?

Same scenario: One guy has more money than Bill Gates. The other makes you feel like you are the most beautiful, desirable woman who ever walked the face of the planet. Which do you pick?  / From: Ross Jefferies

When to use it

Use it at a party, bar or club where a woman or a small group is already smiling and willing to play. It is a light game and fits the evening better than a quick street approach. Keep your tone playful. If she starts to answer very seriously, take the cue and switch to a normal question.

Follow-up

Whatever she picks, ask "Why?" and tease the answer lightly: "So the kisser beats the comedian. Noted." Then hand it back: "Your turn, make one up for me." Keep it to three scenarios so it does not turn into an interview, then move to something about her, like what she does or why she is out tonight. More games like this are in The Question Game.

Why it works

A would-you-rather question has no right answer, so there is no pressure. Her choice also tells you what she values, and the back-and-forth turns the chat into a game, which feels more relaxed than a list of questions.