Spells Opener

Opinion Opener · Ask the group for a quick opinion on a made-up dilemma.

Contents · 3 sections
  1. When to use it
  2. Follow-up
  3. Why it works

“Do you think spells work?”

Sometimes this will send the woman off on a long blab, but if the conversation needs to be kept going, the follow-up routine is:

“The reason I’m asking is because my friend over there met a girl in a club last week. He wasn’t interested in her sexually, because she wasn’t really his type.”

(Here the woman might say “Sure,” in which case you reply “No, really!” and touch her arm or waist.)

“Anyway, she hung out at his house and after she left, he found a metal ring wrapped around a scroll and some feathers under his couch. Well, he took it to a magic store and they said it was an attraction spell. And now, the strange thing is, he can’t stop thinking of her. Do you think it’s the spell or just psychological?”

- by Mystery

When to use it

Use it in the evening at a bar or party with a woman or small group who are chatty and open to playful topics. Magic and fate suit places where people already talk about signs and luck. It does not work in a noisy venue where the story gets lost.

Follow-up

If she believes in spells or astrology, ask for her own story: "Has anything strange ever happened to you?" If she is sceptical, agree and play with it: "Me too, but it would be a great excuse for a bad date." Tell the friend story only when the conversation needs a boost. Keep any touch light, only when she is clearly enjoying herself (kino escalation), and drop it if she moves away.

Why it works

An unusual question about something half-believed is more engaging than small talk. The story is a small mystery with an ending she wants to hear, and the question "spell or psychology?" talks about attraction without asking anything about you. She also gets to share her own opinion.

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