Once you’ve secured your Netflix and Chill partner to spend Cuffing Season with, it’s important to be creative when coming up with ways to keep things romantic, especially if you want the relationship to survive beyond Cuffing Season. Keep reading for some tips and tricks to keep your girlfriend pleased and heat things up when the weather is cold!
While you want to be a rockstar in the bedroom, don’t forget that putting it’s also necessary to build up momentum in order to achieve a desired result. In other words, don’t save ALL the passion for the sack. There are countless, simply ways to make your girlfriend feel appreciated throughout the day and trust me, they can take you a long way. Something as simple as sending a flirty text message or leaving a note for them in a surprising spot can help build the anticipation and get her in the mood for your next encounter. Little things like this can pay off in both the relationship and the bedroom.
Date Nights at Home
Given the season in which Cuffing Season falls, you can’t always guarantee the weather is going to cooperate. Planning a fun, romantic date night at home can really spice things up for you and your girlfriend. For example, cooking a meal together that includes some aphrodisiac foods that boost your libido is a great way to get your night started. Run a bubble bath, light some candles, set the mood with music. If you have a fireplace, light it up and put on a movie. Get cozy under some blankets, relax and enjoy each other’s company. You just never know where your Netflix and Chill might take you.
Keep it Fresh
Maintaining a grooming routine during Cuffing Season is essential if you want your partner to remain interested. Winter weather can be wreak havoc on the body so being proactive is a must! Colder temperatures can induce cracked, dry skin as well as cold sores. If you want to maximize your make out time, consider investing in valacyclovir to get you through Cuffing Season. If you have a beard, you may want to also consider investing in some beard oil for your scruff. You don’t want anything to come between you and your cuddle buddy.
Dress to Impress
Dressing well goes hand in hand with grooming. It’s perfectly okay to wear comfortable clothes when you’re at home hanging out, but if you and your partner hit the town, you want to look your best. In turn, looking your best will help you to feel your best and boost your confidence. If your partner sees you making this effort, they will most likely want to do the same. Colder weather also brings along plenty of fashion staples every guy should have in their closet so it’s a great opportunity to keep up with the trends as well.
Make her feel Special
Aside from sending sexy text messages and being flirtatious, it’s crucial you do some things to make your partner feel like she’s the only one you’re thinking about. Send her flowers, surprise her with a home cooked meal, or take her to dinner at her favorite restaurant. These are simple gestures that again, can take you a long way in terms of the relationship. There are also small acts of kindness you can show that cost no money at all. If it’s a snowy day, consider brushing off and heating her car up for her. This will start her day off on a positive note and earn you major brownie points!
Be the Real You
Nothing can take the spark out of a relationship quicker than your significant other finding out you’ve been putting on an act. Pretending to be someone you’re not is a huge turn off and can only get you so far before it eventually ruins your relationship. Starting your relationship off on an honest, open note will help to keep things truthful going forward. Remember, anyone who truly cares for you will respect the fact that you’ve been an open book from the beginning and may even feel that down the line they won’t have to worry about trusting you in other situations. While it may take some extra time, effort and creative thinking, there are plenty of ways to keep things hot during what can be a chilly Cuffing Season. Keep in mind that a little goes a long way and it’s the simple things that make a lasting impression. Sometimes a well placed and honest compliment can make her day and she will feel loved in your presents.
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