How To Make Your Girlfriend Feel Special

If your girlfriend is adorable and you’re having a perfect relationship without any drama, then you can skip to the pointed line. In case that your relationship could be better, then keep on reading.

Maybe the spark is gone and your girlfriend is acting cold and distant. Or you’re fighting a lot and you don’t really know why. Whenever your girl is behaving bitchy it always means that she has lost attraction.

This can have two reasons: You are either too nice, or you are taking her for granted and she doesn’t feel appreciated anymore.

In both cases, you should follow these steps to make her feel special. If she reacts negative, it means you are being too nice and it’s time to reduce the effort you put into your relationship, because she obviously doesn’t acknowledge it. On the other hand, if she reacts positively, it shows that you should do this regularly to make her feel loved and rekindle the spark between you.


So you want to make your girlfriend happy and give her the feeling of being special? Let me show you some quick ways to make her melt.

1. Give her the Love-Look

The next time you talk to her, don’t look around, instead look into her eyes and hold it. Try to look like you’re proud of her and feel it. You can also variate it by looking at her lips. People do this often on the first dates when they wish to kiss the other one. After she is done talking, stroke her hair and give her a soft kiss.

2. Make Unique Compliments

Try to find something that you haven’t complimented before. It can be about her body, what she is wearing, her personality, the way she does something or her talents. Most people like getting compliments about things that they are proud of. But if you find something that she doesn’t like about herself and you compliment it, it will raise her confidence, even if she doesn’t want to acknowledge it. These kinds of compliments will be remembered a long time, just make sure you are being honest.
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3. Public Affection

If you want to step it up even more, compliment your girl in front of other people. It will make her blush, because showing any kind of affection in front of other people is a clear sign that you are proud of the other person. Some people do this by wearing matching outfits, or jewelry for couples, but there are some more ways. Hold hands and kiss her in public, post photos with her on social media and introduce her to others with “This is my girlfriend, [her name]”.

4. Speak with your body

Show her that you still desire her. Give her a long hug when you see her and kiss her when she doesn’t expect it. Make love instead of raw sex, get some candles, dim the lights and seduce her with a massage. Slowly kiss every body part of her and if you are in the mood, start with giving her pleasure first.

5. Romantic Dates

Go to a romantic restaurant, visit the cinema, go swimming in a lake at night or watch her favorite movie under a pillow. I made a list with romantic date ideas that you can use for your inspiration. The most romantic dates mostly include dimmed lights, food, a lot of body contact and relaxed time to enjoy the company of each other.

6. Little Surprises

Bring her some beautiful flowers, ideally her favorite ones. Cook or bake something for and present it on a well decorated table when she comes from work. Buy her gifts, store them secretly and give her these from time to time. Blindfold her for extra excitement. Tell her “I got a little surprise for you” and let her wait a few hours or days to give her the thrill of anticipation. But sometimes just surprise her without announcement to stay unpredictable.

7. Romantic Gifts

There are all kinds of gifts and she will be happy about most of them. However, if you want to make your girlfriend feel special, you should give her a special gift. As a guy, I’m happy about gifts from my girlfriend that have a practical use. Girls are different, they prefer gifts that are romantic, which means that they are personal with a meaning and that you made some thoughts about them. The ideal gifts that fall into this category are the ones that are engraved with your names or the date you came together. If you want to go a little cheaper, use couple jewelry, where each one of you get’s a piece and when you stick them together, they match perfectly. I made a list with 20 awesome gifts, use them as inspiration:

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