What questions make a girl blush?

Playful questions about you two or about attraction, asked with a smile, for example "What was your first impression of me?" or "What's the most attractive thing a guy can do?". Keep it light and only go there when the mood is already flirty.

What should I ask a girl over text?

Short, easy questions that invite a story, like "What's the best thing that happened to you today?" or "What are you obsessed with right now?". Avoid "wyd" and "how are you", and suggest meeting up once the conversation flows.

What should you not ask a girl you just met?

Skip questions about her body, her exes, her salary or how many guys she has dated. Also avoid interview questions like "Where do you work?" as the very first thing; they make the conversation feel like a job interview.

120 Questions to Ask a Girl (That Aren't Boring)

Running out of things to say is the fastest way to kill a good conversation. The fix isn’t a script, it’s having a few great questions in your back pocket and knowing how to use them. Below are 120 questions to ask a girl, sorted by situation, from the first minutes to late-night texting.

How to ask without it feeling like an interview

Statement first, then question. “You look like someone who travels a lot. Where was the last place you went?” feels like a conversation. “Do you travel?” feels like a form.
Follow up before you move on. If she says she loves hiking, ask where her favorite trail is, not the next question on your list.
Share your own answer. A good conversation goes back and forth.
Read her energy. Short answers and no questions back? Lighten up or give her space.
Tease a little. A playful comment on her answer is more attractive than a perfect question.
Don’t fire them all at once. Three good questions per conversation are plenty.

If you want to know which topics work best on a first date, read what to talk about with a girl.

Icebreakers when you first meet

What’s the story behind that (tattoo, necklace, book)?
Are you more of a coffee or a tea person?
What brings you here tonight?
Best thing you’ve eaten this week?
Are you a morning person or a night owl?
What’s your go-to drink here?
How do you know the host?
What’s the best concert you’ve ever been to?
What’s keeping you busy these days?
Dog person or cat person? Choose carefully.
What song would you pick if you controlled the music right now?
What’s the most interesting thing that happened to you today?
Do you live around here, or are you visiting?
If you could teleport anywhere for the weekend, where would you go?
What’s something you’re looking forward to this month?

Questions to get to know her

What do you love doing when you have a free day?
What’s something you’re really passionate about?
What were you like as a kid?
What’s the best trip you’ve ever taken?
Who’s the most important person in your life?
What’s a skill you’d love to learn?
What’s the best advice you’ve ever received?
What’s your favorite way to spend a Sunday?
What did you want to be when you were little?
Which book or film changed how you see things?
What’s something most people don’t know about you?
What’s your favorite tradition?
What makes you lose track of time?
What’s the best compliment you’ve ever gotten?
What’s something you’re proud of but rarely talk about?

Fun and random questions

What’s your most useless talent?
If you were a cocktail, what would you be called?
What’s the weirdest thing you believed as a kid?
Which fictional character would be your best friend?
What’s your karaoke song?
What would you do with a million dollars, after paying your bills?
What’s the worst movie you secretly love?
If animals could talk, which one would be the rudest?
What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?
What’s your irrational fear?
What’s a hill you’re willing to die on?
Which celebrity would play you in a movie?
If you could only eat one food forever, what would it be?
What’s the strangest dream you remember?
What would your superhero name be?

Flirty questions to make her blush

Save these for when the vibe is already playful, and ask them with a smile.

What was your first impression of me?
What’s the most attractive thing a guy can do?
Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?
What’s your idea of a perfect date?
What’s the cheesiest pickup line that would actually work on you?
Are you a good kisser, or should I find out myself?
What’s something that instantly makes you like someone?
Have you ever had a crush on a friend?
What’s your type, and how close am I?
What’s the most romantic thing someone has done for you?
What would you do if I asked you out right now?
What’s your biggest turn-off on a first date?
Do you get nervous around someone you like?
What’s your favorite thing a guy can wear?
What’s the best date you’ve ever been on?

Deep questions

For quiet moments, a long walk or the end of a good date.

What’s something you’ve changed your mind about?
When do you feel most like yourself?
What’s a dream you haven’t told many people?
What are you most grateful for right now?
What’s the hardest lesson you’ve learned?
What does a good life look like to you?
Who has influenced you the most?
What’s something you’re afraid of?
What do you value most in a friendship?
What’s a moment that changed you?
What do you wish more people understood about you?
What makes you feel at peace?
If you could start over, what would you do differently?
What does love mean to you?
What do you want people to remember about you?

Questions to ask a girl over text

Keep them short and easy to answer. The goal is to set up a date, not to have the whole conversation by text.

What’s the best thing that happened to you today?
What are you obsessed with right now?
Quick: pizza or tacos?
What’s the last thing that made you laugh?
What are you up to this weekend?
What song is stuck in your head?
Best show you’ve watched recently?
What’s your plan for the perfect evening?
What’s one thing on your bucket list?
Beach holiday or city trip?
What’s your guilty-pleasure snack?
What was the highlight of your week?
If you could skip work tomorrow, what would you do?
What’s something you’ve been meaning to try?
When are you free for a drink this week?

Questions for a phone or video call

What’s your day been like?
Where are you right now? Describe the room.
What did you have for dinner?
What’s something new you’ve learned lately?
What’s the funniest thing that happened this week?
Do you prefer calls or texts? Be honest.
What’s on your to-do list that you keep avoiding?
What are you watching at the moment?
What did you think of me before this call?
What should we do when we meet up?

Questions to ask a girl you like

These go a bit further and show real interest, without being too heavy.

What made you smile today?
What’s something you’ve never told anyone you’re good at?
What do you look for in someone you date?
What’s a perfect day with someone you like?
What’s something you’d love to do but haven’t had the chance to?
What’s the kindest thing someone has done for you?
What do your friends love most about you?
What makes you feel appreciated?
What’s your favorite memory from this year?
Want to do something fun together this weekend?

This or that: 10 quick picks

When the conversation needs a lift, rapid either-or questions are easy and fun.

Beach or mountains?
Sunrise or sunset?
Netflix night or night out?
Coffee date or dinner date?
Texting or calling?
Sweet or salty?
Dogs or cats?
Plans or spontaneous?
Summer or winter?
Books or movies?

Questions to avoid

Her body or looks in detail. Compliments, yes; questions, no.
Her exes and her “number”. Not in the first conversations.
Interview questions as an opener, like “What do you do?” and nothing else.
Yes/no questions in a row. They kill the flow.
Anything you’d hate to be asked yourself.

Once she’s answering with enthusiasm and asking questions back, that’s usually a good sign. Here’s more on how to tell if a girl likes you and how to get a girl to like you.