PUAmoreThe Thank You Reply (Bumble)
Online Opener · First messages for Tinder, Hinge and Bumble.
That’s the best review I’ve had all week, I’m going to frame it. What made you laugh, so I can do more of it?
Her first message: Your profile made me laugh. Use it for any compliment about your profile.
Why it works
Accepting the compliment with humour is more attractive than brushing it off, and the question gets her talking about what she likes. It also lets her feel her comment mattered.
Follow-up
- Noted, I’ll keep that in mind. What kind of humour do you like best?
- If she says it was a photo: Honestly, that one was an accident. What else should I know about you?
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