Relax in a Park

Opinion Opener · Ask the group for a quick opinion on a made-up dilemma.

Contents · 3 sections
  1. When to use it
  2. Follow-up
  3. Why it works

It's a great that this park is here… so easy to just let go, relax and forget about everything for awhile… what makes you feel that way?

When to use it

Use it on a quiet day in a park, when a woman sits on a bench or on the lawn, reading or looking around. Stay at a distance and speak softly. Skip it if she wears headphones, works on a laptop or looks focused on something.

Follow-up

Ask how she switches off: "Where do you go when you really want to unplug?" Share your own answer in a sentence. After a minute, introduce yourself and ask whether she comes here often. If a dog is around, the Park Animals opener is an easy next step.

Why it works

A calm remark about the place you are both in is not a demand, and the question is about feelings, not about her looks. The topic is pleasant, so even a short answer leaves a good mood.

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