PUAmore https://puamore.com Dating Advice for Men Tue, 11 Dec 2018 11:17:33 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.0 How to Spice Up Your Cuffing Season Relationship https://puamore.com/spice-up-your-relationship/ Fri, 09 Nov 2018 21:15:16 +0000 http://puamore.com/?p=23993 Once you’ve secured your Netflix and Chill partner to spend Cuffing Season with, it’s important to be creative when coming up with ways to keep things romantic, especially if you want the relationship to survive beyond Cuffing Season. Keep reading for some tips and tricks to keep your girlfriend pleased and heat things up when […]

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Once you’ve secured your Netflix and Chill partner to spend Cuffing Season with, it’s important to be creative when coming up with ways to keep things romantic, especially if you want the relationship to survive beyond Cuffing Season. Keep reading for some tips and tricks to keep your girlfriend pleased and heat things up when the weather is cold!

Be Flirty

While you want to be a rockstar in the bedroom, don’t forget that putting it’s also necessary to build up momentum in order to achieve a desired result. In other words, don’t save ALL the passion for the sack. There are countless, simply ways to make your girlfriend feel appreciated throughout the day and trust me, they can take you a long way. Something as simple as sending a flirty text message or leaving a note for them in a surprising spot can help build the anticipation and get her in the mood for your next encounter. Little things like this can pay off in both the relationship and the bedroom.

Date Nights at Home

Given the season in which Cuffing Season falls, you can’t always guarantee the weather is going to cooperate. Planning a fun, romantic date night at home can really spice things up for you and your girlfriend. For example, cooking a meal together that includes some aphrodisiac foods that boost your libido is a great way to get your night started. Run a bubble bath, light some candles, set the mood with music. If you have a fireplace, light it up and put on a movie. Get cozy under some blankets, relax and enjoy each other’s company. You just never know where your Netflix and Chill might take you.

Keep it Fresh

Maintaining a grooming routine during Cuffing Season is essential if you want your partner to remain interested. Winter weather can be wreak havoc on the body so being proactive is a must! Colder temperatures can induce cracked, dry skin as well as cold sores. If you want to maximize your make out time, consider investing in valacyclovir to get you through Cuffing Season. If you have a beard, you may want to also consider investing in some beard oil for your scruff. You don’t want anything to come between you and your cuddle buddy.

Dress to Impress

Dressing well goes hand in hand with grooming. It’s perfectly okay to wear comfortable clothes when you’re at home hanging out, but if you and your partner hit the town, you want to look your best. In turn, looking your best will help you to feel your best and boost your confidence. If your partner sees you making this effort, they will most likely want to do the same. Colder weather also brings along plenty of fashion staples every guy should have in their closet so it’s a great opportunity to keep up with the trends as well.

Make her feel Special

Aside from sending sexy text messages and being flirtatious, it’s crucial you do some things to make your partner feel like she’s the only one you’re thinking about. Send her flowers, surprise her with a home cooked meal, or take her to dinner at her favorite restaurant. These are simple gestures that again, can take you a long way in terms of the relationship. There are also small acts of kindness you can show that cost no money at all. If it’s a snowy day, consider brushing off and heating her car up for her. This will start her day off on a positive note and earn you major brownie points!

Be the Real You

Nothing can take the spark out of a relationship quicker than your significant other finding out you’ve been putting on an act. Pretending to be someone you’re not is a huge turn off and can only get you so far before it eventually ruins your relationship. Starting your relationship off on an honest, open note will help to keep things truthful going forward. Remember, anyone who truly cares for you will respect the fact that you’ve been an open book from the beginning and may even feel that down the line they won’t have to worry about trusting you in other situations. While it may take some extra time, effort and creative thinking, there are plenty of ways to keep things hot during what can be a chilly Cuffing Season. Keep in mind that a little goes a long way and it’s the simple things that make a lasting impression. Sometimes a well placed and honest compliment can make her day and she will feel loved in your presents.

Read Next: 50 cute things to say to your girlfriend

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Why You Should Use Funny Pickup Lines https://puamore.com/funny-pickup-lines/ Thu, 05 Jul 2018 09:40:47 +0000 http://puamore.com/?p=23833 Some people think using pick up lines is a no-go and I have to agree, most of them don’t really work that well if you want to pick up girls on dating apps or social media. Of course, you can also try to use those lines offline but that’s a completely different game because in real […]

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Some people think using pick up lines is a no-go and I have to agree, most of them don’t really work that well if you want to pick up girls on dating apps or social media. Of course, you can also try to use those lines offline but that’s a completely different game because in real life there are so many other factors that come into play so that the words you say are not so important. It’s more about how your presentation, your body language, tonality and some other details. However, I’m sure most of you are looking for lines to pick up women online so that’s what I will focus on today.

While I agreed that most pickup lines don’t work, you still have to say something to start a conversation. Please don’t torture her with another “Hey”, “What’s up?”, “How you’re doing?”, “Hi, beautiful” or any of those shitty lines that all the losers out there are using. Those messages are even worse than corny or cheesy pickup lines, which already have zero chance of a reply unless you look like Dwayne Johnson.

So what should you write to her? Like I said in the headline, the best lines are funny pickup lines, let me explain why:

If you think about commercials, what is the difference between the bad commercials where you can’t wait until they are over and the good commercials that you enjoy to watch and keep sticking in your mind? The good ones trigger positive emotions in you, most of the time they are funny and make you laugh or at least smile.

You may think what do commercials have to do with picking up women? They have a lot in common! The television is a noisy place where everyone is competing for your attention, just like you are competing for her attention in times of dating apps and social media. You’re advertising yourself and want to stand out from the crowd to make an impression that triggers her to buy into you.

All she cares about is how you make her feel, so if you make her smile with a funny line, it’s a great start and she will be much more willing to reply to you. Like the famous Marilyn Monroe once said: “If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything.” She didn’t live in a time of Tinder and Co but I’m sure she had the same amount of men fighting for her attention so I guess her advice is solid.

Now you can either check out some funny pickup lines and decide yourself which could be worth a try or you read the following article where I picked 12 of the Best Pickup Lines That Work On Tinder and will also do well on other online platforms. I also described when you should write to her and how to follow up to start a conversation and finally get her number to arrange a date.

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Couple Massage at Home https://puamore.com/couple-massage-home/ Fri, 28 Jul 2017 13:31:12 +0000 http://puamore.com/?p=23942 Instead of booking an appointment with a couple massage therapists, let’s set the romance bar higher and give your partner a personal massage. Couple massages help to relax, lower cortisol and relieve stress. But most importantly, they increase your closeness level because the skin on skin contact releases oxytocin. This bonding hormone is correlated with […]

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Instead of booking an appointment with a couple massage therapists, let’s set the romance bar higher and give your partner a personal massage. Couple massages help to relax, lower cortisol and relieve stress. But most importantly, they increase your closeness level because the skin on skin contact releases oxytocin. This bonding hormone is correlated with the longevity of a relationship. Couples who keep their oxytocin levels high, stay together the longest.

Australia’s top couple massage therapist Denis Merkas, who massaged A-list celebrities like Pierce Brosnan or the Pussy Cat Dolls, has created his own course which helps couples to reconnect and get close with their partner. Check out his course to learn his techniques and enjoy more intimacy in your relationship!

Here are some useful tips if you want to start right away:

1. Setting the mood.

Pick some scented candles; just make sure that the scent is not too strong that might contradict the aroma of the massage oil that you will use. You may opt for cedar and pine, bamboo musk, juniper berries, sage, vanilla or white blossoms. These give off delicate scents that will aid the calming process. Make sure to have a safe distance between the candles and the massage-area. Along with the candles, you should also take into consideration the music to be played during the massage. You may download the ones used on spas – the sound of running water, soft bird chirping, violin being played, wind blowing or any other nature soundtrack. This will also drown away any outside noise and will eliminate awkward silence.

Read Next: How to get her in the mood

2. Prepare the Basics

A. The Bed
It’s great if you have a massage bed but it’s okay if you don’t. You can easily do the session inside the bedroom or just set the mattress outside if you want an outdoor feel. Make sure the covers are clean because the oil will easily attract dirt. It is advisable to do the massage on a soft mattress because there would be pressure applied and you don’t want to sandwich her between you and the floor. There must be enough cushions to make it enjoyable.

B. Clean Towels
Have clean towels handy to cover the body and to wipe off excess oil. Choose soft and thick towels to increase comfort. Avoid using torn or rough towels as these will promote skin friction. Have one small face towel ready if you need to wipe off your perspiration too.

C. Temperature
If you’re doing it indoors you may turn the AC on but don’t set it to freezing. Massage oils tend to have a warm effect on the body when rubbed so it is best to keep the right temperature to allow the air to circulate around the room. She will not be relaxed when it gets too humid or hot. You may also check on her to know if she’s comfortable with the temperature. If you’re planning to do this outdoors, avoid noon time. You may opt for an early morning session or later at night.

3. Choose your preferred massage oil.

There are a lot of massage oils readily available for you and your partner to try. Some of the most popular aromas are:

Peppermint – has anti-inflammatory properties and helps in blood circulation
Patchouli – earthy and promotes skin cell growth
Marjoram – alleviates tension and migraines
Chamomile – helps to elevate her mood
Jasmineenhances her libido and a great stress reliever
Ginger – gives a warm feeling
Eucalyptus – improves concentration and breathing
Lavender – best for muscle relaxation

It is also important to note that you should never pour directly onto your partner’s body, put a little amount on your palm first to warm it up using your own body heat.

4. Start the couple massage session.

Traditionally, a couple massage begins at the back, buttocks and the back of the legs. After warming up the oil on your palm, spread it over the back using smooth strokes depending on the pressure your partner prefers. The back is considered one of the tight tension spots which should be the focus of some nice shoulder kneading. After back rubs and kneading you can now proceed with shoulder presses by moving and pressing your fingers along the shoulder blades. As you massage your partner’s back, refrain from putting pressure on bony areas like spine and ribs to avoid accidental fractures.

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After massaging the entire back area proceed with the arms, fingers and finally the back of the legs. If you have been attending couple massage classes, you may opt to do simple body stretches but this is optional and you may skip this if you are doing this for the first time. Simple presses are good for the arms.

Request your partner to lie on her back and massage her hands and down to her front legs. Be careful in massaging the inner thighs because this part is very sensitive and putting too much pressure may inflict pain. Always ask if you are applying just the right amount of pressure whenever you’re moving to a different body part.

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Finally, massage the head, neck, and face. Start with the forehead, move your fingers up and around in a circular movement. After a few minutes, apply the same technique to the temples. Then, massage the jaw and the lower cheek. Apply soft pressure using the fingertips and rub gently towards the ears. Finish the massage by running your fingers on her scalp and gently applying pressure from her forehead to her head.

5. Important tips and reminders

The main goal of a couple massage is relaxation. So it is important to remember these tips:

  • Make sure your fingernails are groomed. Long nails may scratch or injure your partner.
  • Limit your conversation to double check if she’s comfortable with the pressure applied. Let her bask in the moment and unwind through peaceful meditation.
  • Make sure that your session won’t get interrupted. Turn off all electronic appliances and gadgets for the meantime. Both of you will need to keep your focus.
  • You and your partner must not eat a full meal two hours prior to your session. Same thing applies to having alcoholic beverages.
  • An hour couples massage is a good start. Do not rush the session or extend too much.
  • Make sure that she is comfortable to be massaged in certain areas. If she’s going to be uneasy we are defeating the purpose of giving her the ultimate spa treatment.

Read Next: 30 Romantic Date Night Ideas for Rainy Days at Home

A personal couple massage is one of the best ways to reconnect with your partner and to help her rejuvenate after a very long week. If done correctly, it will definitely improve intimacy and comfort level between the two of you. The best way to ensure the success of this bonding moment is to learn from an expert. This online course will guide you to do it the right way. You know she deserves it.

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First Date Mistakes – Top 10 https://puamore.com/first-date-mistakes/ Wed, 28 Jun 2017 15:25:38 +0000 http://puamore.com/?p=23623 The first date decides whether there will be a beginning of something wonderful like a relationship, or that’s the end of it. Maybe it was easy to get her on a date, but most of the time it took you a lot of time and effort to find a cute girl who seems to be […]

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The first date decides whether there will be a beginning of something wonderful like a relationship, or that’s the end of it. Maybe it was easy to get her on a date, but most of the time it took you a lot of time and effort to find a cute girl who seems to be a great match and spark her interest to date you. That’s why you don’t want to mess it up, and this article is going to help you.

During the first date, women try to find out the negative things about a man rather than positives. The funny thing is that men do the exact opposite. So you should be very cautious about your actions and what you talk about. There are many mistakes a man usually does during his date, these are the ten most common first date mistakes.

It’s a Date, not an Interview

Asking too many questions to the woman is certainly the biggest mistake that a man does on his first date. One thing you need to keep in mind that it’s not an interview, it’s just a date. You should ask questions on the topics which seem to be interesting to her. The questions can be related to hobbies, passion, weekend planning, ambition etc. Again, you shouldn’t ask the questions in a row. Because it will make your woman feel like she is appearing a quiz test.

Overconfidence

A woman always dreams to have a partner who is confident about himself. Unfortunately, most men mix up between confidence and overconfidence. The former one represents a man who he truly is. And the later one indicates his arrogance. You don’t need to show the woman that you are superior. It only makes you look foolish and childish.

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Correcting the woman on silly things

Finding faults at every single thing is really is a very bad quality. It doesn’t only upset the women, but also the men. Finding faults at every little thing doesn’t make you intelligent or smart. Rather the woman will lose the interest in you. So you keep things playful and simple.

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Uncomfortable and loud spot date place

Surroundings of the dating place can influence the mood of a woman. The first date is all about the two people. A calm environment offers both of you to express yourselves in a better way. So you must have to be selective while choosing the dating spot.

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Looking at the TV or phone frequently

What a woman wants from a guy is his clear attention. Proper attention to a woman makes her feel how precious she is to you. There could be a beautiful song or an exciting football match on the TV screen, but you shouldn’t just look there ignoring your woman. Because it reflects your priority to get entertained, and you’re choosing the TV over her. You also need to avoid checking the phone frequently other than necessity.

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Being rude to your date

Most of the women want guys who are soft and polite in nature. Offering to hold the doors at the time of entering into a restaurant, pulling out the chairs is a good way to show politeness to a woman. Besides, you must show respect to the waiter who will offer you service. One thing you should keep in mind that you might not get a second chance to impress the woman of your dream.

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Talking about money

On the first date, you shouldn’t discuss money. You might or might not have lots of money. Talking about it or your new car will certainly catch the attention of money loving woman. She will fall in love with your property, not with you or your personality. If you try to show that you are penniless, it will certainly make you look pathetic. Instead, you should discuss your future like where you want to see yourself in next 5/10 years.

Awkward silent

Prepare yourself with a few interesting questions, jokes, etc. Most men get nervous when they face their dream girls. They couldn’t find a single question to ask their women. Instead, they remain silent. Remaining silent for some time certainly makes a first date a boring one.

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Sharing the opinions as facts

Most men share their opinions as facts, and they don’t even realize it. For example, if the woman wants to know about your favorite music, you shouldn’t reply like “I love metal songs, and I hate soft music.”. The answer should be like this “I love metal songs, but I would love to hear your thoughts on metal songs. And I would like to know about your favorite music and artists.”

Negative body language

A woman wants to get the full attention of the guy who is dating her. What most of the men do is checking out other people around. This type of attitude certainly shows her that you’re not comfortable with her or more interested in the things around you. The best way to show positive body language is maintaining a proper eye contact with your woman.

If you want to know some great conversation topics that you can use for your next first date, check out this article:

10 Topics to talk about on a First Date

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What to talk about with a Girl (10 First Date Topics) https://puamore.com/what-topics-to-talk-about-with-a-girl/ Tue, 13 Jun 2017 11:42:10 +0000 http://puamore.com/?p=23921 She said yes (hold your horses, it’s just a date!)! Now what? Check out this list of conversation DO’s and DONT’s. Aside from your shoes, you would also want to impress them on how well you carry conversations because.. duhh.. who wants a boring date? So, let’s keep this intro short and off we go.. […]

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She said yes (hold your horses, it’s just a date!)! Now what? Check out this list of conversation DO’s and DONT’s. Aside from your shoes, you would also want to impress them on how well you carry conversations because.. duhh.. who wants a boring date? So, let’s keep this intro short and off we go..

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Avoid Talking About These Topics

1. Politics
You’re on a date not a debate and should be enjoying a stress-free conversation. Topics about political parties, foreign policies, government programs, etc. are sure fire buzz kill. Politics is something you talk about with your uncles over barbecues because you don’t have any choice and barbecues are meant to be meatier to make it more tolerable. Even if you both support the same candidate or agree that The West Wing is the best political drama of all time, it’s just way too heavy.

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2. The Pope, the Rabbi and the Imam
Religious beliefs should not really be the focus of discussions of any dates. There are endless angles, conspiracy theories, secret scrolls, etc. Unless you’re dating Dan Brown, it’s not something you would like to bring up. And to be fair, I think even Dan Brown would like some timeout about medieval religious sacrifices and ancient catacomb hunt too.

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3. Your Ex-Girlfriend
No. Just don’t. Your buddies won’t even tolerate the ex-discussion then why on earth would you want to have this as conversation starter on a date? It will make you look like a stalker and someone who haven’t moved on. Textbook creepy. What’s the sense of dating new people when you’re stuck thinking about the past? You should have not bothered asking him or her on formal date if you just want to blab about your ex; you should have asked them over for Jenga instead.

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4. Mandatory family gatherings
It’s a plus that you’re a family guy. You love your parents and you’ve managed to get along well with your siblings. Bravo. That’s all for now. You don’t have to smother her with all your Thanksgiving IG photos over the last 4 years. She just want to get to know you first, Uncle Nigel and Aunt Gertrude can wait. Telling her that you’re the official grill chef every Memorial Day might put her off — dude, chances are she got family too and who knows she might be the official cocktail server on her side of the family. She might see this as complications and early signals that things shouldn’t really get serious between you two since holidays schedules seem to be something written in stone.

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5. Salary
Unless you’re talking about you bosses’ tax returns and how magnificent his new Malibu crib is, there’s absolutely no reason why you would need to snoop about how much she’s earning. Talking about money makes you look like an insecure and overly-competitive person. Finances are private matters that you don’t really share with someone you’re dating for a couple weeks.

Great Topics To Talk About

1. City Dude o Rural Guy
Talking about hometowns and proud lineage will always be fun. It’s nice to know how people spent their childhood and feel nostalgic about the good-ol-days.

2. Dog or Cat Person?
Our fluffy and furry friends make the list of the best topics to talk about. Why? Simply because their furry and fluffy – what could go wrong? If you got a dog and she got one too, you may ask her if you can join on one of their walks. You guys can go on a double date! It does not get any awesome than that!

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3. What does your Saturday look like?
Knowing her typical Saturday night (or morning) will give an idea on what type of dates you’ll follow through (considering if this works). If she’s into partying, then to the bars you go. If she’s into theatre, then you can volunteer to get the tickets for this weekend’s show.

4. What’s your group of friends like?
You better listen to the Spice Girls’ hit “Wannabe”. If you really like her, you have to win the friends too. Especially Tiffany, the BFF. Friends’ approval is vital when it comes to dating. Her circle would want someone who (1) good enough for their friend and of course someone who (2) they could also get along with. Take mental notes.

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5. Cinema or Netflix?
It’s a modern way of asking if she likes to go out or would prefer to cuddle or curl at home instead. This is a good question so you’ll know whether to buy popcorn or have the Chinese restaurant phone number on speed dial.

So that’s it. But one thing you should remember is, the whole idea of dating really seems to be a tangled web and to be honest there isn’t really a perfected formula to ace it. But the good news is, if it’s already complicated as it is, why complicate it further? Just keep it simple and keep it true. Baby steps are the way to go. Giant leaps might take you further, but it might also take you to the dead end fast. Relax. Our main goal is to get to know her and for her to get to know you. You’re already awesome so no need to panic – just enjoy the rest of the night! Good luck, mate!

You need more fuel for your conversations?

Check out these 10 Conversation Topics for Your First Date.

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What to talk about on a First Date https://puamore.com/what-to-talk-about-on-a-first-date/ Wed, 07 Jun 2017 19:18:17 +0000 http://puamore.com/?p=23886 Being on a date, especially on a first date can be nerve-wracking. Fine, you already picked the best restaurant in town and you even managed to look good! But have you thought about what to do on your actual date? You know how fast a date can go from 10 to -1 real quick, right? […]

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Being on a date, especially on a first date can be nerve-wracking. Fine, you already picked the best restaurant in town and you even managed to look good! But have you thought about what to do on your actual date? You know how fast a date can go from 10 to -1 real quick, right? A date is a social activity meant to be enjoyable and the perfect chance to discover interesting things about each other. The number one turn-off is a boring date. If you’re Brad Pitt gorgeous you might probably get away with it.. but.. even the good-looking guys mess up if they come unprepared. Really. True story.

But no need to panic, here are seven best conversation topics you can talk about on your date night – all of which are boring-proof:

1. TV Series
If her Facebook profile is full of GoT memes and her online personality test results show that she can be the mother dragon, well that’s a good warm up conversation topic. If you both like a particular show that would be just perfect. But what if you don’t have a single clue about the series she digs because you still haven’t moved on with How I Met Your Mother’s series finale? Believe it or not, it can be good news. Why? Because it’s exactly a conversation starter! But don’t go all clueless because it would give a negative impression that you don’t have anything in common. Research about the series; learn the plots and the key characters a little bit. Who knows you might not even enjoy your date but have a future series buddy too.

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2. Gordon Ramsay
No, you won’t be exchanging insults all night, silly! But is she the foodie type? If so, you may want to talk about foods that you’ll probably find on Gordon Ramsay’s Instagram. There’s nothing sexier than a man who shows interest on what she’s passionate about. You can even talk about your restaurant menu options. Word of caution: you may date a vegan and you probably might be a meat eater. So… make sure that you don’t turn it to an argument. Treat it as if she’s someone who just happens to love broccoli and you prefer pot roast. Instead of being defensive about your choices, lead a conversation about mutual respect instead. Both of you might even find interesting points about each other’s choices. Well, maybe not enough to convince you say no to bacon but you might go home more knowledgeable about your green leaves.

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3. Dream Vacay
I know this sounds kinda cliché, but talking about things outside work or daily routines will always be a good conversation choice. It’s just up to you to add a little kick to it. Think of piñacolodas, people still love it not just because of its tropical punch. Also, since you’re talking about destinations, tell her about your ultimate dream of visiting Sint Eustatius. But don’t limit your discussion about beaches or the tropics, urban sceneries can also be thought-provoking too.

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4. The “What If” Questions-Game
What if you won $5 million? What would your first purchase be? This game never goes old. This is a fun and a creative getting-to-know-you activity. This would give you a glimpse on what her preferences are and what her views are on random things. Just be cautious not be too political or ask questions that might be offensive – race, ethnicity, religion, sex… you know the drill. Remember, the goal of this activity is to loosen up and not be boxed on boring stereotype discussions.

To give you an idea, here are some “What If” questions you can use:

  • What if you have the option to cast the celebrity who would star on your life story, who would it be and why?
  • What if you can go back in time, would there be any historical event you would like to be part of?
  • What if NASA discovered another liveable planet, would you volunteer for a pilot visit?
  • What if you get a chance to talk to your 12 year old self, what would you tell her?
  • What if you can be any fictional character, who would you be?

5. The Unique List
Come prepared if you choose this option. It’s not easy to think about the things that are unique about you. Go first to give her an idea of what the topic is. Not being a fan of veggies is not really something unique or extraordinary. Come up with something like, “One thing unique about me is my sleeping habit. I can only go to sleep if I take a whiff of my favorite scent or perfume.” Then ask her if she has something similar to share. And from there, you’ll be surprised on how your conversation will cruise on auto-pilot. The key to spontaneous conversations is how to start with something interesting. Unique always equate to extraordinary.

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6. Would you rather?
This is a What If Game spin-off. The Same concept applies and you may base your questions or choices depending on your date’s personality.

Examples:

  • If she’s into outdoor adventures you can ask – Would you rather hike Mt. Everest or go spelunking on Carlsbad Caverns?
  • If she’s the indoor type – Would you rather learn the recipe of the best tasting cake in the world or get the first ever edition of your favorite book?
  • Is she’s a foodie ask her – Would you rather have dinner with Julia Childs or Paul Bocuse?
  • Tattoo chick would be psyched to answer this – Would you rather get inked by a novice artist with the design that you like or by Chris Garver with a design you’re not a super fan of?

7. Sporty Spice
If you’re dating a chick who knows a lot about free throw averages or bicycle kicks or double plays then sports topics should be considered pronto! Guys are naturally sports-inclined so this should be a walk in the park. You can both talk about your favorite teams, if you have watched a live game before, any novelty items you bought, etc. If both of you are rooting for different teams, make sure to keep the discussion light and fun. You don’t want to sound like a crazed fan! And cmon you can’t screw this up, she loves sports! That’s a super turn on!

At the end of the day, what’s important is YOU being YOU. Do not pretend to be someone else so you’ll look more interesting. Trust me, your gas will run out. It’s just not worth it. Just have fun, share a glass of wine (or beer pint) if you must, be polite, listen to her stories and be YOU. That’s the coolest thing ever.

Read Next: 50 Signs – How to tell if a girl likes you

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Pick Up Lines that work on Tinder https://puamore.com/pick-up-lines-that-work-on-tinder/ Thu, 18 May 2017 12:42:08 +0000 http://puamore.com/?p=23811 So you want some quick and funny pick up lines that you can copy & paste into Tinder? I will show you some great ones but don’t expect that they will work on every girl, forever. Here comes the explanation: Pick up lines have an expiration date The main reason for using these lines is […]

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So you want some quick and funny pick up lines that you can copy & paste into Tinder? I will show you some great ones but don’t expect that they will work on every girl, forever. Here comes the explanation:

Pick up lines have an expiration date

The main reason for using these lines is to make her laugh and think that you’re funny, witty and clever. She probably knows that the pickup line wasn’t invented by you, but you were the first guy who told it to her. Furthermore, it shows that you have a great sense of humor by picking a line which both of you find funny. However, girls on tinder hear so many lines each day that it’s not easy to find an untapped line. Ones a girl has heard it before, it won’t work anymore.

Places to find untapped pick up lines

A few years ago I wrote an article about 12 Pick Up Lines that work on Tinder many guys have read it and used those lines on multiple girls. Now those lines won’t work as good as they used to and that’s what happens to all pick up lines after they are publicly accessible. Fortunately, there are two ways to get around this problem:

1. Limited Access
People are lazy by nature, so using a simple barrier like the following lock prevents 99% of guys to use the lines which are hidden behind it. If you want to see seven of the best lines for tinder, just click one of the buttons and you will be part of that 1% who can use them:

2. Being Creative
By creating your own line, you can definitely be sure that no one else is using them. Try to make it funny, she doesn’t need to laugh but a smile will increase the chances of a response dramatically. It should also be a line that could be reused for other girls so you only need to be creative once. Don’t make it longer than two sentences, be straight to the point.

Pick up lines for everyone

Like I promised here are some pick up lines that you can use without doing anything. You can just copy and paste them into Tinder and they should work better than most others you find online. However, it’s possible that soon a lot of guys will use them too, which decreases their effectiveness.

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How To Make Your Girlfriend Want You More https://puamore.com/how-to-make-your-girlfriend-want-you-more/ Mon, 18 Jul 2016 06:17:38 +0000 http://puamore.com/?p=23800 The only way to make your girlfriend want you more, is to show her that you are able to give her want she needs. Knowing that you are capabale of giving her everything she desires, makes you the perfect boyfriend. However, most guys make one of these mistake, which will slowly but surely make her […]

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The only way to make your girlfriend want you more, is to show her that you are able to give her want she needs. Knowing that you are capabale of giving her everything she desires, makes you the perfect boyfriend. However, most guys make one of these mistake, which will slowly but surely make her loose interest in you.

Read Next: Signs that your Girlfriend is cheating

1. Mistake: Not giving her everything she needs

Humans are lazy, we only do what’s necessary, so why should you make an effort and invest in a girl, if she is already your girlfriend? Because 90% of all relationships don’t last. Even 50% of all mariaged couples get divorced, mostly from the women. So if you really love your girlfriend and want to keep her, start investing in your relationship and give her what she needs!

2. Mistake: Giving her everything she wants, instead of what she needs

A lot of guys are putting effort into the relationship, but it still doesn’t work out. The problem is that they don’t really know what women need. So the easiest way to find it out is to listen to what she says that she wants. But it’s common that women themselves don’t even know what they need, so the things that she seemingly wants are most of the time the wrong things. I’m sure you know or heard of a nice guy, who does everything for his girl and she still threads him like trash. It’s because he doesn’t give her the right things, don’t be that guy and give her what she needs.

3. Mistake: Constantly giving her everything she needs

In a second I’ll tell you what she really needs. If you manage to give her all of that, your relationship will be much more stable and your girlfriend will be happy. However, if you want to take it further and make her addicted to you, then you should only give her what she needs, when she deserves it. That means if she behaves badly, acts bitchy, cold or rude, then you withdraw your efforts until she is lovable again. On the other hand, when she is cute and adorable, you increase the effort.

How to give your girlfriend what she NEEDS

There are two core desires that every girl (who is girlfriend-material) has in a relationship. These are also the main reasons why girls want to have a relationship. It’s the feeling of being safe and appriciated, all other desires are variations of these two.

You make her feel safe by:

1. Being loyal: She knows that she can always trust and count on you. Be a man of his word and keep your promises. Don’t lie to her, be honest and authentic.

2. Having boundaries: Let her know what you expect from her and the relationship. If she crosses your boundaries, put her back in place. In the long run, she will respect you for this, because it shows that you have a backbone and you’re not a wussy.

3. Being able to lead her: Take responsibility, have an opinion and guide her. Choose where to sit in a restaurant, have date ideas and never use the sentence “I don’t know, what do you want?”.

4. Being able to handle problems: Do you know why women act crazy sometimes and make drama? It’s because subconsciously they simulate an extrem situation and want to see how you handle it. If you loose your cool, it shows that you will also freak out if a bigger problem appears. Stay calm and handle the drama or any other problems with patience, so she will feel safe with you.

You make her feel appriciated by:

1. Giving her emotions: Why do you always see a big crowd of people when an accident happens? Why do people watch news, pranks, fails or even cat videos? Because their lifes are so booring! They desperatly want to feel something. So make her the gift of emotions, preferably positive emotions mixed with excitement. The best way to do that is by making her little surprises from time to time. Take her on an adventure or buy her something she likes, when she doesn’t expect it.

2. Paying attention: Listen to what she has to tell you, even if it might sound needless sometimes. Men talk to deliver informations, while women talk to deliver feelings. She wants you to take part of her life. Also try to notice when she changes something about her appearance, we often overlook the little details. She will appriciate your observations and compliments.

3. Spending Quality Time: After a long day at work you just want to relax, cuddle on the couch and watch some Movies. That’s perfectly fine but now and then it’s important to break the routine before it becomes booring. Try one of these romantic date night ideas which don’t take much effort and are even great for rainy days at home.

4. Telling her that you care: There are many variations of telling your girlfriend that you truly care about her and you should verbalize it at least once a week. Make it a habit to say cute things to her like “I love you; I’m happy to be with you, I’m proud of you; I’m glad I’ve found you; I’ll be there for you; I’ll help you; I miss you; I love spending time with you; You complete me; These are just some examples to let her know that you care about her and your relationship.

5. Making her feel special: Words are just empty air, if your actions don’t follow. You can tell her whatever you want, but she will only start believing that you really mean it, if you also show it to her visually. Here are some ideas how to make her feel special:

  • Suprise her with nice gestures like her favorite flowers or a bubble bath with scented candles or rose petals.
  • Help her relax by doing some housework for her so when she comes from her job you can spend more time together.
  • If you got time and talent, try to make a personal DIY gift with some creativity and your hands.
  • Buy her a romantic gift which is personal and unique like having something custom engraved.

Read Next: Best Romantic Gifts for your Girlfriend

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How To Make Your Girlfriend Feel Special https://puamore.com/how-to-make-your-girlfriend-feel-special/ Fri, 15 Jul 2016 14:41:03 +0000 http://puamore.com/?p=23792 If your girlfriend is adorable and you’re having a perfect relationship without any drama, then you can skip to the pointed line. In case that your relationship could be better, then keep on reading. Maybe the spark is gone and your girlfriend is acting cold and distant. Or you’re fighting a lot and you don’t […]

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If your girlfriend is adorable and you’re having a perfect relationship without any drama, then you can skip to the pointed line. In case that your relationship could be better, then keep on reading.

Maybe the spark is gone and your girlfriend is acting cold and distant. Or you’re fighting a lot and you don’t really know why. Whenever your girl is behaving bitchy it always means that she has lost attraction.

This can have two reasons: You are either too nice, or you are taking her for granted and she doesn’t feel appreciated anymore.

In both cases, you should follow these steps to make her feel special. If she reacts negative, it means you are being too nice and it’s time to reduce the effort you put into your relationship, because she obviously doesn’t acknowledge it. On the other hand, if she reacts positively, it shows that you should do this regularly to make her feel loved and rekindle the spark between you.

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So you want to make your girlfriend happy and give her the feeling of being special? Let me show you some quick ways to make her melt.

1. Give her the Love-Look

The next time you talk to her, don’t look around, instead look into her eyes and hold it. Try to look like you’re proud of her and feel it. You can also variate it by looking at her lips. People do this often on the first dates when they wish to kiss the other one. After she is done talking, stroke her hair and give her a soft kiss.

2. Make Unique Compliments

Try to find something that you haven’t complimented before. It can be about her body, what she is wearing, her personality, the way she does something or her talents. Most people like getting compliments about things that they are proud of. But if you find something that she doesn’t like about herself and you compliment it, it will raise her confidence, even if she doesn’t want to acknowledge it. These kinds of compliments will be remembered a long time, just make sure you are being honest.
In front of others

3. Public Affection

If you want to step it up even more, compliment your girl in front of other people. It will make her blush, because showing any kind of affection in front of other people is a clear sign that you are proud of the other person. Some people do this by wearing matching outfits, or jewelry for couples, but there are some more ways. Hold hands and kiss her in public, post photos with her on social media and introduce her to others with “This is my girlfriend, [her name]”.

4. Speak with your body

Show her that you still desire her. Give her a long hug when you see her and kiss her when she doesn’t expect it. Make love instead of raw sex, get some candles, dim the lights and seduce her with a massage. Slowly kiss every body part of her and if you are in the mood, start with giving her pleasure first.

5. Romantic Dates

Go to a romantic restaurant, visit the cinema, go swimming in a lake at night or watch her favorite movie under a pillow. I made a list with romantic date ideas that you can use for your inspiration. The most romantic dates mostly include dimmed lights, food, a lot of body contact and relaxed time to enjoy the company of each other.

6. Little Surprises

Bring her some beautiful flowers, ideally her favorite ones. Cook or bake something for and present it on a well decorated table when she comes from work. Buy her gifts, store them secretly and give her these from time to time. Blindfold her for extra excitement. Tell her “I got a little surprise for you” and let her wait a few hours or days to give her the thrill of anticipation. But sometimes just surprise her without announcement to stay unpredictable.

7. Romantic Gifts

There are all kinds of gifts and she will be happy about most of them. However, if you want to make your girlfriend feel special, you should give her a special gift. As a guy, I’m happy about gifts from my girlfriend that have a practical use. Girls are different, they prefer gifts that are romantic, which means that they are personal with a meaning and that you made some thoughts about them. The ideal gifts that fall into this category are the ones that are engraved with your names or the date you came together. If you want to go a little cheaper, use couple jewelry, where each one of you get’s a piece and when you stick them together, they match perfectly. I made a list with 20 awesome gifts, use them as inspiration:

[Read] Top 20 Romantic Gifts for Her

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Romantic Gifts for Her https://puamore.com/romantic-gifts-for-her/ Tue, 21 Jun 2016 12:38:14 +0000 http://puamore.com/?p=23741 I collected some of the best romantic gift ideas to make your girlfriend feel special. These gifts are a perfect surprise for her and nearly every girl will love them. Nearly all of them are personal and unique which makes them even more romantic. Make sure that you also read the 5 tips at the […]

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I collected some of the best romantic gift ideas to make your girlfriend feel special. These gifts are a perfect surprise for her and nearly every girl will love them. Nearly all of them are personal and unique which makes them even more romantic. Make sure that you also read the 5 tips at the end of this gift-list.

Custom Letter Necklace
Either with your or her first letter.
Can’t go wrong with this gift – it’s simple, classy and personal.

Leather Photo Album for Couples
Keep all your favorite memories with her in one place.
The heart-shaped cover makes this photo book a very romantic gift.

Matching Jewelry for Couples

Matching Necklaces for Couples
Two parts that match perfectly together, just like you.

 

Scratch-Off World Map
Tell her that you want to travel the world together. She will find this super romantic because it means you’re planning your future with her. Give her this map so she can scratch off all the countries you’ve visited.crown necklace

Crown Necklace for your Princess
One of my favorite items, I’ve bought it myself and it looks awesome.

 

Couples Massage Techniques
Impress her with your massage skills, increase your intimacy and closeness.

What I Love About You Book
Just fill out the blanks and tell her all the cute things you love about her.

 

Engraved Picture Necklace
Your favorite memory engraved in this picture necklace

 

Conversation Starters for Couples
Always have some great conversation topics

 

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Matching Rings for Couples
No matter if it’s a promise ring or just a romantic gift. These couple rings will give her the feeling of being connected with you.

 

Truth or Dare Questions for Couples
Spice up your relationship and get naughty with this funny game.

 

Sex Positions Book
New exciting variations of your favorite positions.

 

Engraved Gold Necklace
Cute bracelets engraved with her name a date or coordinates.

 

Giant Teddy Bear for your Girlfriend
Whenever you’re away, she can hug him and think of you.

 

Matching Couple Bracelets – Engraved Coordinates
Always remember the place you share special memories with, your first kiss, your first date, your wedding.

 

Custom Name Necklace
All time classic, either with her or your name on it.

5 Important Gift-Tips!

1. Always Have Backup Gifts

If you are reading this because your girlfriends birthday, your anniversary date, valentines day, or Christmas is around the corner and you are looking for some inspiration, you are making a big mistake. The following situations explain, why I always have a backup of romantic gifts in a secret place and you should too:

Situation 1: I’m always late when it comes to searching for a gift. I can’t tell you how many times I had only a few days left to find something great, so I searched the internet, asked some friends and went to the city but still couldn’t find a gift that she would make her happy. The local shops only had boring stuff and I wasn’t sure if it came on time when I ordered online. This time, is was my girlfriends birthday and after a few hours searching in different online shops, I finally found something that she may like. Her birthday was on a Friday and the site said it should be there on Wednesday. Guess what happened? It came Saturday and I had to tell my girlfriend that I will give it to her the next day. Which wouldn’t be a big deal for me, but girls are different. In female language, it means: I care so little about you, that I forgot your birthday.

Situation 2: I vividly remember the day when me and my girlfriend were together for exactly two years. It was a Saturday after a stressful week and she joyfully welcomes me. When I entered the kitchen I saw a big plate of self made chocolate muffins in the shape of a heart. I was really surprised and asked her “That’s so cute, why did you do that?” she replied “Are you serious? Don’t you know which day we have?” – My heart fell into my stomach, I totally forgot it. My mind was racing “she’s so happy, I can’t tell her that I forgot it” so I tried to act cool and said “sure, but I didn’t expect such a cute gesture”. I felt so bad and I could tell she noticed that I forgot it, because I didn’t even had a small gift.

That day I swear to myself that I will always have some backup gifts as little surprises ready, just in case. Gifts don’t have an expiry date, they don’t get cheaper and there will for sure be a situation where you will be very thankful that you got something.

2. Surprise Her!

If you have some knowledge about female psychology, then you know that the way to a women’s heart is to treat her like a little girl. I don’t mean that you shouldn’t take her seriously, although it can be effective sometimes. But what do little girls love more than anything else? They love surprises! It’s unexpected, it creates excitement, joy and above all it shows that you care and appreciate her. To increase the excitement, tell her that you got a very small gift for her, let her close her eyes and wait a minute.

Size and price don’t matter, it’s all about the gesture. It can be something between $5 to $20 and trust me, if you do this from time to time, she will pay it back ten times in one way or another. It’s the best investments you can make and honestly, just seeing her happy will be worth it.

3. It’s Not About The Money

I always thought that the more I pay for a gift, the more she will appreciate it. This might be the case if your girlfriend is a gold digger, but if she truly loves you, there is only one attribute that should decide how much she appreciates your gift: the amount of work you put into it. This work can be physical, for example, an artwork that you made yourself. Or this work can be mental when you spend a lot of time to find out something unique that she really likes, especially when it has a deeper meaning to her.

4. Universal Romantic Gifts

Universal gifts are the ones that can be used in any situation and are perfect as backup gifts. I have always a few of them in a secret place and even if my current relationship doesn’t last, I could give it to my next girlfriend.

Jewelry – Number 1 on this list because it feels expensive, but you can get awesome items for under $30.

Matching Couple Jewelry – You and your girlfriend each have one item, like a half of a broken heart which perfectly matches to each other.

Home Decor – Women love beautiful things and it’s always great to have something standing in her apartment that reminds her of you, every day.

Be careful with these gifts:

Funny Stuff – Men love funny gadgets but women mostly don’t and it’s often only funny for a short period of time.

Guessing her taste  – Perfume, shower gel, clothing and everything else where you have to guess her taste is dangerous unless she gave you a hint.

5. Personalized Romantic Gifts

These are romantic gifts for her, that are unique and have a little background, which connects the two of you. They are perfect for special occasions like her birthday, your anniversary date, valentines day or Christmas and therefore cost a little more.

Ideas for Personalized Jewelry

Some ideas how to customize engraved rings, engraved bracelets or engraved necklaces:

  • Coordinates of the place you met, you first kissed or your birthplaces
  • Your handwritten signatures
  • Your names or just the first letter (initial)
  • The date of your anniversary

You can’t go wrong with these romantic gifts for her. They are cute, unique and have a connection to you. I always have 1-2 personalized gifts stored, in case there is something important that I forgot and it’s too late to order them. It’s also useful when I don’t find the right idea or I’m just too lazy, I mean busy to search after something. Additionally, I keep 4-5 little surprises to reward her if she was very cute or just to surprise her when she is sad and had a bad day.

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