Currently, you should know the truth about Tinder and after you have set up the perfect Tinder profile, you got a few matches. Now you ask yourself, which lines are the best to open her and get the conversation started.
At first, make yourself clear that there is a huge difference between opening girls in real life vs girls on Tinder. These girls use Tinder because they want to be approached and if they match with you it means they are already waiting for your line. The only problem is, that she also gave 10 to 100 other guys this opportunity and just like Sperm Wars, the best one will win. Most probably there are some better looking guys, but that doesn’t matter. She seems to like every guy she has a match with, the only thing that’s helping her decide is your conversation and it starts with the right pick up lines.
Good News: Most guys don’t read articles like this, they have really poor game (I proved this with an experiment) and it’s easy to outgame them with the following material.
When to write her
Don’t write her immediately after you matched, that’s needy. Sometimes girls write you first so, which is a big investment on her side and it’s nearly impossible to blow it up after that. By writing her immediately you would kill that chance. However, don’t wait more than few hours.
Most Guys are incredibly boring
If you look into a Tinder Account of a female friend, you will see that 80% of the guys all write the same boring crap. No wonder that they don’t get a response. Don’t be like them, never use lines like: “Hey Cutie” “What’s up?” “How are you?” “Hey Name” “What are you doing?” “You are cute”.
Girls just wanna have fun
The primary reason girls sign up on Tinder is for entertainment. If you’re not funny, the next guy is only a few seconds away. She has so much more choice than in real life. As a guy you can go up to any girl and approach her, but girls just show interest, hope the guy get’s it, has the confidence to open her, is cool and funny and most importantly: is not clingy when she has no interest, it’s much easier to get rid of someone on Tinder.
The primary goal of your Tinder lines should be to give her a reason to join a conversation with you. You do this by using a funny or interesting pick up line like the examples you find below.
Most Tinder Lines are Bullshit
Nearly all Tinder lines that you will see online are just Pickup Lines which exist for many years. I’ve made a huge collection of 2000 Pickup Lines but 95% of them don’t work! They are not made to work, they are just for entertainment. The only way to make them work is when you use a Pickup Line that she has never heard before and manage to make her laugh.
Openers are the new Tinder Lines
I once created this section of 200 Openers, most of them can also be used on Tinder. The only purpose of Openers is that they should work. To make it easier for you I picked some that I like, you can see them below.
Best Tinder Lines that work:
– Prettiest smile I’ve seen on Tinder
– You don’t know how many times I’ve had to swipe left to find you
– You shall be my Wife
– I’ve had a crush on you for years
– Finally I found a Girl like you
– Sup Tinderella
– I know this profiles fake but can I get the name of the model you used for your pics
– Sit on my face and I’ll eat my way to your heart.
– I’m sure you get this all the time but you look like a mix between Fergie and Gandhi
– I have a feeling that you’re trouble
– I have a feeling that you like trouble/assholes
– You’re everything I thought I never wanted in a girl
– You’re really not hot enough to get away with being this boring
Examples of Funny Lines that worked:
Getting her number
No matter how funny or romantic your first line was, you will have to continue in order to get her number. Click on one of the Like-Buttons, to see how you transition from the opener to getting her number:
The primary purpose of a pickup line is to get her to reply. If she replies positive that’s a good sign, but answers like “yes” or “no” won’t bring you far, even “aw you’re cute!” or “haha, that’s funny” are not the best way to built a conversation.
Trigger a reply, which helps you built a conversation
“I have a feeling that you’re trouble” Is a statement about her. Girls are very self-conscious and a line like that will make her curious to know, what exactly makes her look this way. The chance that she answers will be very high because she wants to know the reason. She will reply with something like “Haha, why do you think so?”. Now she joined the conversation and you managed to get her interested. You can follow with all kinds of reasons, be creative and write down a few beforehand.
Some good and some funny conversation starters
Show her that you’re a cool guy and make her want more
This is the perfect foundation to build a short and interesting chat. The main purpose of the chat is to make her realizes that you might be fun to be around. Don’t write too long on Tinder, it’s important to get her number as long as it’s hot. This means when you are having an interesting conversation and she replies very quickly, it shows that she is on. Unfortunately, women, especially on Tinder don’t have lasting emotions. They cool down very fast, so ask for her number in the first conversation while it’s on a high point.
Examples how to ask for her number
A simple sentence like: “Let me get your number so we can continue this conversation over text.” should do the work. To keep the fun-vibe you can continue with something like “I’m going to send you something dirty so you know it’s me. Ok?” Then text her the words: “Something dirty ;)”.