Tinder Definition: It’s a Dating App, where you get displayed random girls from your area and can anonymously decide whether you like her or not. If she likes you too, a match is created and you can chat with each other.
Does Tinder Really Work?
[fimage] Most Guys use Tinder because it eliminates all barriers which hold them back from approaching in real life. You don’t have to go out, get into state, push against your approach anxiety and have to deal with painful rejections. You can use it while sitting emotionless on your toilet. I can’t tell you how I hated it when we had a boys night out and some of my friends where using it while there were hot girls dancing around us.
However after I made a review about tinder, I have to admit, it works. It’s really possible to date girls with this app without paying any money. I have a few friends who date at least 3 new girls every week just by using it. I wrote an article for them about the best tinder lines and openers to get your conversation started.
BUT: The Girls that you will date over Tinder are a special kind. Like always I have to analyse everything so I tried to find out what type of girls are using it, why they are using it and which ones you are able to meet.
50% – Girls are NOT what you are looking for
This is just an average, which is very different for every guy. It depends on your standards and where you are located, in bigger cities for examples are usually hotter girls. Another factor is what you are looking for. If it’s just sex, you will probably accept more girls than for a relationship.
She is only hot on tinder. You should also be aware that almost every girl is better looking on her photos than she is in reality. Girls take thousands of pictures, they know exactly how to look good and how to cover their flaws. Fat girls often show only pictures of their face, girls with a big nose often use pics only from the front and girls with ugly teeth never smile. Ask for her instagram or facebook name to check more photos before you meet her.
She’s hot, but a weirdo. Maybe she looks good, even in reality but there is something wrong with her. You won’t believe how many mentally ill females exist, unfortunately the rate of hot girls is much higher. Make sure you speak with her on the phone to make sure she has a cute voice and it’s nice to talk with her
20% – Girls won’t date via Tinder
The main purpose of using a dating app like tinder is to connect and date other people. Unfortunately many girls use Tinder for other purposes like:
Entertainment. There are a lot of situations when girls are bored and instead of playing a game they skip through tinder. You can instantly use it and it creates positive emotions, which leads us to the second reason.
Validation or feeding her ego. It’s like a drug, for some women validation is even more satisfying and addictive than having sex. Most women are insecure and constantly need to measure their market value. Feeling desired is a huge turn on. The knowledge that she could have so many guys is satisfying itself, she doesn’t necessarily need to date them.
Promoting themselves. You will see a few women, especially the hotter ones having their instagram address in the description. Tinder-Matches or Instagram-Fans are a new kind of Orbiters. It makes her feel special having such a range of potential guys and being able pick one of them, whenever she is in the mood to do so. Some evil girls will exploit these orbiters for free dinner or to get help with any of her problems in the hope to get her laid someday.
20% – Girls are looking for fun
Tinder is know to be a hookup-app so of course there are also a lot of girls who are using it to get laid. It’s everything a girl could wish for, within a few minutes she can find a guy in her area, who comes over to have some fun and nobody notices it. Be aware of the fake sluts, who make you think they are easy to hook up with, but in reality they are harder than the average girls. There are certain types of guys who attract nearly all girls who are looking to get laid on tinder, I explained it further in the Tinder Booster.
10% – Girls are Girlfriend-Material
There are also some girls who are honestly interested in dating someone. If you are lucky, you will have a match with one of these girls. But even they will be saturated or taken very soon, because it’s incredible how much choice they have. So what is different about the girls who really want to meet and date guys? Most often her range of interesting guys is very limited, here are some reasons for this:
Small Town Beauty. Everyone knows everyone, there are only a few guys who are interesting. She knows her worth but because of her environment she doesn’t often meet guys who play in her league. She doesn’t want to settle for less and parties aren’t the place she wants to meet someone, that’s why she tries tinder.
Home Girl. She doesn’t have any time, because she is hard working or learning a lot. Or it’s just not in her interest, instead of going out she spends her free time rather with inviting friends, reading books, playing games or watching movies. It could be her choice or she has strict parents who doesn’t allow this. Be careful with the last ones, she will probably be not allowed to date strange guys, this could get you into big trouble, especially if she has an islamic background.
Milfs. She is divorced and has a kid which means it’s hard for her to party and nearly no guy approaches a women with a child. She hates the feeling of getting older without a man, she wants to feel desired again. Don’t be scared, she only wants to have some fun, it doesn’t mean that you have to play daddy, unless you want to. These women are often ideal for an open relationship.
Conclusion – Is Tinder worth using?
For the average guy I would recommend to use tinder as long as you enjoy it. Some guys are able to date and get laid with more girls than they can handle. Others have a hard time to get even one date a week. There are several tricks that help you to get more matches, you can learn them in the Tinder-Booster.