Convince Your Girlfriend To Have A Threesome

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The female mind

When approaching your girlfriend about indulging in a ménage et trois (threesome) there’re a few things you need to think about. One of those things is that women can be insanely jealous & feel threatened by other women when it comes to sharing their man. How you word the conversation is very important. If you come across as too enthusiastic, the female mind will create a heap of reasons why you want to sleep with other women; she isn’t good enough for you, she’s not pretty enough, you’re not satisfied by her, you don’t want to be with her or you’re already having an affair.

The right words

Don’t go in full steam ahead and ask outright; “I want a threesome, what do you think?” this will only get you into a messy argument. We all interpret the meaning of a word differently, so tone is very important. Gradually start talking about sex and what you like between the sheets, when you’re both comfortable drop a comment into the conversation, casually and with a cheeky grin; “I’d love to see you being touched by another woman.” You instantly make it about her and how you would love to see her pleasured, how caring are you! Your reasoning should always be about her and how much you want to see her pleased, all the while getting yourself a double helping of pleasure. If she disagrees, DO NOT challenge it, you will only be validating all of her insecurities if you push too hard.

Boundaries

Some couples agree on certain boundaries before taking the plunge into a threesome, so to speak. These could be anything: no kissing on the mouth, only when you both agree, no anal. You can set your own limitations depending on what you’re comfortable with. Many couples stay away from kissing on the mouth; they feel it’s too personal, but again, it’s really down to what you as a couple are ok with. You must respect the boundaries set, a toe out of line can result in you losing your whole relationship. Women can be a little crazy, there’s never any need to purposely activate the crazy within her.

Who

Some couples prefer to approach friends, while other couples prefer to seek people they don’t know when indulging in a threesome. Quite simply, everybody is different. Think about how you and your partner got together for a minute, was it easy or hard? If it was easy, a stranger would probably be more suited. There’s a good chance your partner forms relationships quickly, which is not the best thing to have when introducing a third lover to your bed. Threesomes are not for everybody, take enough time to think about who the third person will be, don’t rush. Ideally you and your partner would both be truly open-minded. Some of you will be sat there nodding “yeah we do all of that nasty stuff,” the rest of you are thinking climbing Mount Everest would probably be easier. Rest assured, the threesome is not just a legend, and it is totally do-able. Of course the ultimate solution would be to learn how to be dominant and go bag yourself a submissive. But that’s a whole other topic.